One Relationship is Better Than One Hundred Acquaintances

What is the price of one great business relationship? Could it be worth the cost of your annual marketing budget? I bet the answer is, "YES!"

How to Quite an Audience

I was at an awards event this evening and noted once again the ever present challenge of quieting an audience. There are no bad people here, just passionate and enthusiastic attendees engaged in having fun and enjoying good conversation.

As an Emcee at many events I have found one method for getting the attention of the audience that has NEVER failed.

From the podium say this: "If you can hear the sound of my voice turn to the person next to you and say shhhhh."

If needed say it again. Personally I have never had to say it more than twice. Amazingly, people perform the task and within seconds I've enjoyed a rapt and attentive audience.

Who Do You Know That Needs to Know Someone Else?

Everyone I know needs to know someone else I know. Everyone.

There is no time like right now to get started on making introductions.

The Rule of 52

There are 52 weeks in a year. If you committed yourself to scheduling one meeting per week for one year with potential clients, existing clients or referral contacts could you imagine that your result would be incredible? I can. I've done it.

This is a really, really simple thing to do. One meeting each week -- preferably a meal, with someone you'd like to get to know or know better.

I challenge you to do poorly if you're committed to the Rule of 52!

What Clients Want

Matt Homann posted an incredibly insightful graphic about what potential clients look for when hiring an attorney (seen here). I absolutely agree with Matt, except when the decision maker is another lawyer (i.e. corporate or outside counsel). One lawyer measuring another still comes down to what is represented on the left of Matt's chart.

Social Media is All About Being Social

Thom Singer delivered this post yesterday; "Is Social Media Really Social?" He offers great thoughts about how social sites are becoming entertainment outlets and we are starting to sit back, not participating, as we wait to be entertained.

It is true we are entertained and instead of turning on TV many of us are turning on our computers (and smart phones) to veg-out -- but we still NEED to talk and that is evolving too.

I am someone who wants to be a part of a conversation. In my personal social media journey I have migrated from viewing the entertainment to scrolling to the comments segment of a page. On Amazon I pay more attention to reader reviews, on Digg I read the commenter blather, on Twitter I follow thought-posters and un-follow product pushers and on FourSquare I read the visitor log to discover more about where I am currently standing. As soon as any favored social site jumps the shark and becomes a corporate shill I am out the there.

Some of the social sites that started this revolution have become more entertainment than social -- it is bound to happen... but Thom is right about this; Keep being social! It is the conversation that matters.

Take a Chance -- Say Hello to Someone You Do Not Know

Some habits are hard to break... like hanging out with whom we know at an event with hundreds of new relationship opportunities.

Tonight was the first ever Orange County Business Journal General Counsel of the Year Awards gala. To the credit of Executive Editor Rick Reiff and Publisher Richard Reisman the attendance was stellar and thank you for recognizing the rock stars behind the scenes that make the wheels go fast (i.e. general counsels).

The habit I witnessed at the event this evening is our propensity to migrate and remain within the circle of relationships we already have. In a room filled with unknown people (decision makers we should get to know) we sought out any person that provided a safe haven -- no risk, nothing uncomfortable. In a room filled with opportunity we choose not to take a chance at a cost of $150.00 per ticket.

I know most of us (me included) are not extraordinarily extroverted people and feeling safe is important... but if I could encourage you to meet just ONE new person when you venture out. It really is worth it.