Wednesday, March 23, 2011
When you say hello and he/she responds with the usual, “How are you?”, answer in this way:
“Today I am feeling ____(see list of feelings below) because ______.”
The list of feelings you can choose from are: Loving | Joyful | Happy | Peaceful | Grateful | Fearful | Angry | Sad | Hurt.
Do not use any other words. It might sound something like this:
Them: “How are you?”
You: “Thanks for asking. Today I am feeling peaceful because most of the things I wanted to get done this week have been accomplished.”
The reason it works is that you are answering with openness and honesty -- actually opening the door to a more meaningful conversation. Your answer will create questions and off you go on a great conversation!
What about the words fear, anger, sad and hurt. Should you use them? Absolutely. If it is what you are feeling, say it. “Today I am feeling angry (or) sad because it cost me $50 to fill my gas tank.” “Today I am feeling hurt because a long time friend in moving back east.”
It is the open and honest sharing that will win you a new friend!
This works when you state feelings and reasons that are real. Connecting with people requires a little risk… take the chance so that you can reap the reward.
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Friday, March 11, 2011
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